My professor talked about how women aren’t used to asking for things in the work place, such as raises, because we’re conditioned to downplay our achievements and hold off on asserting our value. She discussed how, even now at this stage in her career (a published doctrate), she shakes when she askes to be considered for a raise and about the first time she was really successful at getting one. After class I asked her what she asked her boss and she winked at me, took me to her office, and asked me to take notes.
She said she practiced this technique like 5 times in her office before she requested a meeting with her boss. I’m gonna share it with you guys because I really loved it.
You start off by thanking your employer for their support (whatever that means in the context of your work environment).
You then say that you would like to take some time to discuss next year’s salary.
You say, allow me to refresh your memory regarding some of my accomplishments or contributions from the past year, and you present a written summary of all that you’ve done.
You close by saying, I hope that next year’s salary reflects this list of contributions and you thank them for their time and see yourself out.
I just loved how she made it seem so much less daunting of a task. She said not to underestimate your achievements as women have a tendency underreporting what they’ve done.
The fact that she shared this with me really meant a lot as well as women really need to be there to empower each other and help guide each other towards success. So if you end up using this, let me know! I want to see how it works for you ^_^.
It’s also helpful to research what people in your position are generally paid and give that to your employer. My mom was always underpaid in her positions and was able to consistently get a raise by showing that she should be making significantly more for the position and job duties she was doing.
I appreciate everyone adding on to this post! Please continue to share tips/strategies you know in order to help others <3
This is literally exactly how I asked/received a promotion earlier this year. Bring! That! List! As closely as you may work with your supervisor, they can’t remember every detail of what you did, and they may not be able to immediately identify the broad strokes of how you’ve grown as an employee – putting it out there for them makes a massive difference. And it’s likely they’ll have to go to someone else to get approval for promoting you, and the list gives them more backup in your favor.
One tactic I am trying to use is to create a monthly Word document of what I do and projects I’ve completed, so that at the end of the year, you can look back and have it all written down for you instead of trying to remember something you were working on 10 months ago.
More doobles from today
Screenshot of a tweet that reads, “In case of volcanic eruption, you will hear mermaids. Do not ignore the mermaids; they are there for your safety.”
Underneath it, a quoted tweet: “Perils of Google Translate no 44a. People seeking greater warning of volcanic eruptions want sirens, not mermaids.”
Tattoo done by Miryam Lumpini.
This is the first time I’ve seen color tattoos on dark skin that actually look vibrant and pigmented!!!!!
Once I was talking to a dark skinned lady who told me that she was jealous of my pasty skin because she wants color tattoos, which her artist said wasn’t possible with her skin tone. I sent her to mine, and he proceeded to go off about how dark skin accepts greens, yellows, and white beautifully, and that her previous artist just lacked the skills to use those 3 colors as highlights to make other colors pop more. If you are dark skinned and your tattoo artist says you can’t have bright colors, find a new one.
This happened to me too they said my skin was too dark for colors, then I talked to a black tattoo artist and they said that was bullshit so I’m definitely doing colors next time
CAT QUEST 2016
For some reason large numbers of cats were added to the game. SOME of them will meow when you pass, indicating they want some food. They only eat one unspecified item (for grey it’s poultry, black want ice cream, and gingers want really, really spicy meat)
Give it to them and the cats you feed will move into your home instance, chase each other and bat snowballs around.
This was not mentioned in any update log or acknowledged by any dev and more hungry cats have appeared after patching. People are still searching to see if there are more and some are arguing that finding and feeding every cat must have some kind of special reward.